Use business as the analogy, here is the layout,
CxO (x = E, T, O (?))
Executive Assistant (EA)
CFO
Kid --- CxO
Parent --- EA + CFO
Operation ---
kid decides what to do (E), how to do (T), and do (O)
Parent(s) helps kid in terms of execution (EA), and watch/plan financial matters (CFO)
Can EA suggest new ideas to CEO? Of course. Will the new ideas be accepted? It depends.
Can CFO decides on things? Of course. A lot of times, that can become a determine factor. For example, decision to attend Private Schools or public schools, a lot of times are impacted by the financial situation of a family, even though sometimes it is a matter of family belief.
Wise families follow these natural flow. Unless weak-minded kids encounter strong-minded parents. Only the later can turn into a disaster because it is against the nature.
CxO (x = E, T, O (?))
Executive Assistant (EA)
CFO
Kid --- CxO
Parent --- EA + CFO
Operation ---
kid decides what to do (E), how to do (T), and do (O)
Parent(s) helps kid in terms of execution (EA), and watch/plan financial matters (CFO)
Can EA suggest new ideas to CEO? Of course. Will the new ideas be accepted? It depends.
Can CFO decides on things? Of course. A lot of times, that can become a determine factor. For example, decision to attend Private Schools or public schools, a lot of times are impacted by the financial situation of a family, even though sometimes it is a matter of family belief.
Wise families follow these natural flow. Unless weak-minded kids encounter strong-minded parents. Only the later can turn into a disaster because it is against the nature.
